Wedding weekends continue to evolve, and one of the newest trends couples are embracing is the post toast. If you haven’t heard the term before, think of it as a relaxed welcome party that takes place right after the rehearsal dinner. It’s a way to include all your guests in the festivities without expanding the rehearsal dinner guest list.
At Saratoga Event Group, we’re seeing more couples choose post toasts as an easy, enjoyable way to start their wedding weekend on a warm note.
A post toast is a casual gathering that follows the rehearsal dinner. While the dinner is often reserved for immediate family and the wedding party, the post toast invites all other guests to join in the celebration. It typically lasts around two hours and focuses on drinks, light bites, and quality time together.
The vibe is social and upbeat. Guests can mingle, enjoy a few appetizers and desserts, and feel included from the start of the weekend.
Post toasts have taken off for a reason. They give couples a chance to welcome everyone without the pressure or cost of expanding the rehearsal dinner. Guests appreciate having something to do the night before the wedding, and the event provides a natural moment for people to meet before the big day.
Other reasons couples love them:
A post toast feels like an informal cocktail party. Guests who attended the rehearsal dinner usually drift into the event, while everyone else arrives fresh and ready to socialize.
Most post toasts include:
There’s typically no program or speeches. It’s all about connection and warm hospitality.
If you’re considering a post toast, here are a few simple ways to make it feel effortless:
Hosting the post toast at the same venue as the rehearsal dinner or nearby keeps the flow easy for guests.
Plan for appetizers and desserts rather than a full meal. This helps manage cost and keeps the pace casual.
Two hours is perfect. It’s enough time to socialize without stretching the evening too late before the wedding day.
Signature cocktails, simple florals, or a welcome sign can make the space feel intentional without overplanning.
Include post toast details on your wedding website or welcome guide so guests know when and where to arrive.
Post toasts are a modern way to welcome guests and set the tone for the weekend ahead. Even if they feel a little over the top, they can be a sweet way to bring everyone together, especially for couples with many loved ones traveling in.
With the right timing, location, and menu, a post toast can be a warm and memorable kickoff to your wedding celebration.
Ready to plan your post toast? Reach out to us to learn more about our venues and catering services.